This week our founder and author of the video-enhanced eBook “Kisses to Kink: A Dominatrix’s Guide to Great Sex” Nina Payne, was interview by Kiri Blakeley from The Stir to discuss how couples can have their own version of “Fifty Shades of Grey” sex.

Check out this feature as Nina Payne (aka Kimi Inch) explores ways couples can get started in trying kink. She gives great tips, but if you want more- you are gonna have to buy the book and watch the videos!

For The Stir feature click HERE

Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) is the Founder and President of Domi Dollz. Ms. Inch has been involved in the kink lifestyle for over ten years. In 2005, she was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop a training program for their new employees. This eventually led her to bring her lesson plans to the mainstream as a way to teach and empower curious couples and individuals how to enhance their sex lives through kink.

She has since lectured on kink at Princeton University and has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, New York Post, New York Press, Time Out NY, BlackBook Magazine, Karin+Raoul Magazine, Asylum, LoveTrekker, The Frisky, AlterNet, and Business Insider.  She has also made numerous television

appearances, having been featured on ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, and The OWN Network’s Our America with Lisa Ling.

While based in New York City, Ms. Inch has traveled throughout the world bringing her message of better sex and relationships through kink, beginning with exclusive fetish parties while a DJ and club promoter in Tokyo, then to places such as London, Sydney, Melbourne, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Boston, Chicago, Washington D.C, Vancouver, Seoul, Thailand, Dubai, and Hong Kong.

It is her objective to create a world open to exploring sexuality and to bring kink out of the dungeon and into the spotlight.

To see a sneak peek of Nina Payne’s video tutorial from “Kisses To Kink: A Dominatrix’s Guide to Great Sex” click HERE

(Photo by Natasha Gornik)

From NBC New York: “Every month, the party people at Les Salonnieres get together and throw one-of-a-kind eating events. To celebrate the Day of the Dead and the Seven Deadly Sins, Ali visits the underworld to find out just what exactly goes on at a Les Salonnieres party. Ali is looking great in this weekend’s show! “

To check out this sinfully delightful feature, click HERE:

http://www.nbcnewyork.com/video/#!/blogs/1st-look/Get-Sinful-at-Les-Salonnieres/206965721

View more videos at: http://nbcnewyork.com.

(Model: Marlo Marquise – Photographer: J Isobel De Lisle)

Domi Dollz has always had the honor of meeting extremely beautiful and fascinating women throughout the world. We love seeing women who respect themselves and lead by example by being the difference. So when we had the opportunity to work with our latest honorary Domi Doll at a Gothic themed Valentine’s Day event in February 2013, we couldn’t wait to learn more about her. We are pleased to introduce the legendary Marlo Marquise. You’re welcome!

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Known as the “Dark Diamond of Burlesque”, “The Sideshow Showgirl” and “Suspension Starlet” , Marlo Marquise has graced the covers and pages of books, magazines, and websites from all over the world. Marquise is known for her dark vintage, glamorous style and her unique ability to combine classic Burlesque and old school sideshow skills in her performances.

“A true 21st century Renaissance woman, Marlo Marquise has her gentle hand in everything from burlesque to modeling, art and erotica…..Marlo has depth, and a woman with more than one dimension is always appealing.” – Marc Ecko’s Complex Magazine

MM: If you aren’t willing to make serious sacrifices in your life, then don’t try to perform for a living.  If you want to take it up as a hobby, try going to a few classes!  Jo Weldon created the NY School of Burlesque for those who want to give it a whirl.  OR if you just want to learn how to shake it right, take my fellow performers booty class taught by Gal Friday.  If you are serious about becoming a burlesque performer the best thing to do is start going to as many shows as possible and meeting performers and producers.  The community loves the support!

(Photographer: Saryn Christina)

(Or click HERE to view YouTube video)

In this YouTube video the lovely Ms Mona Rogers interviews one of our newest Domi Dollz: Beauty Foster, while at our “Kisses To Kink” video/photo shoot. “Kisses To Kink” is an eBook that brings every element of Domi Dollz world-renowned workshops and events into one book for the public to experience in the privacy of their own home. Kinky Amour is a book for the woman looking to enhance her love and sex life through kink. This sort of “Kink For Dummies” is complete with photography and video tutorials performed by the gorgeous members of Domi Dollz, like Beauty Foster.

Stay tuned for the release of this book coming soon!

XOXO

Check out Nina Payne’s interview on “Dana & Jeffery In the Morning” radio show on WBLI as the chat about all things kink related. To hear that interview click HERE!!!

XOXO

(Mistress Kara)

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Since we have been working so hard on our 1st book: Kinky Amour, Domi Dollz has been a little hiatus with our Dollz of the Month. Well now we are back on track and featuring a fellow respected kink educator: Mistress Kara! We had the pleasure of working with the gorgeous Mistress Kara at The Pleasure Chest in Los Angeles last August and we have adored her ever since. Not only is she a sex and kink educator but she also brings a lot of theatrics and entertainment into her educational performances. We love her style so we asked her to be one of the contributors of our upcoming book, and she was glad to drop some kinky knowledge on us. Read on to learn more about this amazing woman.

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Mistress Kara is a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix, a certified Sex Educator, a competitive wrestler, a stage actor and performer, a promoter of positive debauchery, a connoisseur of kink, and a proud producer of BDSM and fetish adult entertainment. Mistress Kara works with all genders, levels of experience, nationalities, sexual orientations, and ages, as well as with couples, triads, etc., and with the disabled.

www.MistressKaraDominatrix.com

DD: How, when and where did you get interested in or exposed to the Kink Scene?

MK: I believe I have been a kinky person since I was first sexually aware of my own body. I became seriously interested in the kink scene when I moved to San Francisco in 2005. As an adult, moving to San Francisco offered me a world where I could be “out” without being judged or condemned. The city offered me endless opportunities to learn all I could about the kink scene. It was there that I established myself as a Professional Dominatrix and where I turned an interest into a real craft, into something intentional and sacred. Soon after moving to San Francisco I enrolled in Madame Cléo Dubois Erotic Dominance Intensive for Women Players at the Academy of SM Arts and shortly after decided that being a Dominatrix was not just my life path but my career path as well.

MK: My absolute favorite part of the kink scene is the incredible level of communication that is the basis of any safe, sane, and consensual power play. My life is incomprehensibly richer and more satisfying now that I have learned to be completely open and honest with myself and with my partners and the entire world. My least favorite part of the Kink Scene is the separatism that is sadly not uncommon among some kinky groups and events. I would like to see less of the superiority mentality in the kink scene and more acceptance of others outside of the scene who are “vanilla” or unsure or curious or new. It can be very intimidating trying to explore a new scene if one is made to feel inferior simply for being a beginner. We all have to start somewhere.

MK: My life has changed completely since being exposed to the kink scene. My relationships to others and to myself get stronger every passing day and I directly attribute much of that progress to the philosophies of the kink scene. When I was younger I was unable to express myself fully, saying taboo things out loud would create terrible anxiety, and I felt ashamed for the feelings and desire I had. My way of thinking was built out of irrational fear. Since I’ve been part of the kink scene I’ve learned to really investigate what will the actual consequences be if I do not conform to the norm, what will happen if people don’t understand me or think I’m weird, what if I embrace my sexual self without shame, if I do as I will yet harm none? Being exposed to the kink scene began this new way of thinking for me and my eyes opened and I have never been happier.

MK: Kink is definitely getting more mainstream. It is inevitable and I believe it should be embraced. It is a good thing! I am proud to contribute to the educational part of the equation and I am doubly proud of all the kinky people I know who are also educators. Teaching one another,  passing the wisdom along…This is the right path. Unfortunately there is quite a bit of kink information making it’s way mainstream via popular media and literature that either disparages kink or paints an unsafe portrait of what the scene is really about. Some have even given the impression that consent and safety are not important when those are actually the MOST important factors when playing with a partner. In fact most serious kinksters are intelligent, compassionate people who genuinely respect their partners.

MK: I first  heard about Domi Dollz several years ago via an email I received that contained an awesome Domi Dollz mix and I have actually used that mix in many of my sessions. Then to my delight and surprise, I recently had the pleasure of working with Ms. Nina Payne during one of her Domi Doll workshops. I have nothing but admiration and respect and love for Domi Dollz.

DD: Tell us a little about your “vanilla” life?

MK: I am fairly 24/7 with kink as it is a huge part of my life and work but I have many “vanilla” interests. I love bicycling, swimming, dancing, camping, hiking, traveling, reading, music, art, theater, and just hanging out and having stimulating conversation with a variety of friends who range from really kinky to really “vanilla.” 

MK: I don’t offer the fact that I am kinky to everyone, but anyone who respectfully inquires will receive a completely honest answer. I am open about my craft, I am visible to the world as a Dominatrix, and I believe it is my duty as well as my honor to help stimulate a positive social dialogue about sexual freedom.

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