Ms Mona Rogers
Workshop Instructor & Domi Dollz Model/Performer
Location: Los Angeles & NYC
To see Ms Mona Roger’s feature as Domi Dollz of the Month for April 2011 click HERE
Mona Rogers is a professionally trained lifestyle Mistress currently located in NY. Predominantly know for her professional role in the scene, she also offers educational classes and counseling for lifestyle partners.
Born and raised on the east coast, she grew up in a middle class household that was very loving but not particularly open. She always felt that she was a little bit different than most people she associated with and was very much and open-mined free spirit. Even though she experimented with Kink from early on she never had a particular understanding of her desires at the time. It wasn’t until some years later that she finally found herself seeking out the answers. The more research she did and the more Kink friendly people she met the more she became attracted to the scene. Since then she has spent a large amount of time working on her skill and sharing her knowledge with the community.
DD: How, when and where did you get interested in or exposed to the Kink Scene?
MR: I became officially involved about 6 yrs ago in NY. I was moving on from a lot of different things in my life at the time but I had always really felt like something important was missing so I started doing my own research into the scene and what I found fascinated me.
DD: What do you like most about being involved in the Kink Scene? Dislikes?
MR: I like the open mindedness of the scene and how everyone is very accepting of who you are as an individual. I also value the amazing connections and unforgettable moments I have shared with special people and loved ones. My dislikes in the scene are people who don’t engage in Kink for the right reason or may not be safe, sane, or consensual. Those types of people paint an unflattering picture on the scene as a whole. There is still a lot of misunderstanding and taboo associated with Kink and it’s really up to the scene to come together and teach and share with others in a positive and respectful manner.
DD: Has your life changed after being exposed to the Kink Scene?
MR: I feel much more complete as a person. I find that also more confident and in tune with myself emotionally. My everyday interactions with people I encounter also seem more meaningful because I am more aware of the energies people posees and I learned that through Kink . I also find that I more compassionate, patient, and understanding to people in general.
DD: Do you feel Kink is getting more mainstream?
MR: Without question. From music video to fashion, the influence is everywhere. There are even noticeably more BDSM activities and imagery being acted out in “vanilla” pornography. I think our society is getting to the point where were are starting to have to face the fact that there are many different sexual preferences out there and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
DD: What got you interested in Domi Dollz? How did you hear about us?
MR: Ms. Nina Payne, the founder of Domi Dollz, was one of my first mentors. I became involved because I wanted to help others the way she helped me because it was such a positive experience.
DD: What is your most favorite Kinky outfit that you love to get dressed up in?
MR: I love corsets! They make my figure look so amazing and I feel like the epitome of femininity when I’m wearing one. Pair that with stockings and a garter belt and I’m in heaven!
DD: Tell us what your most ideal kinky encounter would be?
MR: I absolutely love sensory play. I enjoy watching the person that I’m playing with process and get lost in every sensation that I can create for them. I always say that blindfolds are the cherry on any Kinky sundae!
DD: Tell us a little about your so-called “vanilla” life?
MR: As much as I hate to admit it I’m actually kind of boring. I mostly run errands, work on personal projects, watch movies or listen to music at home. As far as my vanilla social life goes I really like to have dinner with friends or go dancing. I am very blessed to have an amazing group of friends that accept me for who I am and what I do so I don’t have to hide my eccentric side from them.